30 Lessons for Loving
By Karl Pillemer
Advice from the Wisest Americans on Love, Relationships, and Marriage. Hudson Street Press, 2015.
Summary of 30 Lessons for Loving book by Karl Pillemer
A collection of stories on love and relationships compiled from in-depth interviews with Americans 65 and older, who share their wisdom, advice, and guidance with younger generations.
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What do I get from this book? Personal stories from America’s elders that offer guidance on love, sex, and relationships
Finding “the one” can be tricky, especially when your head and your heart may want different things
know what you’re getting into: warning signs, extended family, and secrets to choosing the right partner
Leave mind reading to the psychics; communicate with your partner and learn to apologize
Tips, tricks, and suggestions for better communication—and recognizing when communication just won’t help
Your marriage comes first—kids, in-laws, and work will have to take a number
Assign chores, get out of debt, and learn how to structure your lives together
Sex, romance, and intimacy never die in a relationship—they just evolve
Keys to a successful marriage: show respect, put in the effort, and make time for your partner
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Who should read 30 Lessons for Loving book
- marriage counselors
- single adults in search of relationships
About the author of 30 Lessons for Loving
Karl Pillemer
Karl Pillemer holds a PhD in sociology and has devoted his professional life to the study of gerontology. In 2004, Pillemer established the Legacy Project at Cornell University, where he teaches Human Development. His comprehensive study of senior Americans developed into two books and numerous speaking engagements that reflect on societal elders and their often overlooked and underutilized advice.
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