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30 Lessons for Loving

30 Lessons for Loving

By Karl Pillemer

Advice from the Wisest Americans on Love, Relationships, and Marriage. Hudson Street Press, 2015.

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A brief summary of 30 Lessons for Loving

A collection of stories on love and relationships compiled from in-depth interviews with Americans 65 and older, who share their wisdom, advice, and guidance with younger generations.

Key insights in 30 Lessons for Loving

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What do I get from this book? Personal stories from America’s elders that offer guidance on love, sex, and relationships
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Finding “the one” can be tricky, especially when your head and your heart may want different things
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know what you’re getting into: warning signs, extended family, and secrets to choosing the right partner
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Leave mind reading to the psychics; communicate with your partner and learn to apologize
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Tips, tricks, and suggestions for better communication—and recognizing when communication just won’t help
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Your marriage comes first—kids, in-laws, and work will have to take a number
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Assign chores, get out of debt, and learn how to structure your lives together
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Sex, romance, and intimacy never die in a relationship—they just evolve
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Keys to a successful marriage: show respect, put in the effort, and make time for your partner
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Selected critiques in brief
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Final word

Who should read 30 Lessons for Loving

Couples • newlyweds • marriage counselors • therapists • single adults in search of relationships

About the author of 30 Lessons for Loving

Karl Pillemer holds a PhD in sociology and has devoted his professional life to the study of gerontology. In 2004, Pillemer established the Legacy Project at Cornell University, where he teaches Human Development. His comprehensive study of senior Americans developed into two books and numerous speaking engagements that reflect on societal elders and their often overlooked and underutilized advice.

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Karl Pillemer

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