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How Not to Be a Boy

How Not to Be a Boy

By Robert Webb

Canongate Books, 2017.

5.0 / 1

15 mins read

13 Key insights

A brief summary of How Not to Be a Boy

The inspiring and honest autobiography of comedian Robert Webb, who explores themes of masculinity, gender dynamics, and unmet expectations through a touching account of his violent, disjointed childhood in rural England and his later success as an actor and writer.

Key insights in How Not to Be a Boy

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What do you get from this book? Insight into Robert Webb’s relationship to masculinity and his journey of emotional growth
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Webb had an aggressive father who pushed him to toughen up, but as a child he knew was different
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Boys were supposed to like sports, play rough, and not wear or do anything “girly”
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Stereotypes about gender and skewed expectations of boys and girls are damaging and nonsensical
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The death of Webb’s mother was an emotional blow that he struggled to cope with
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Boys aren’t supposed to fall in love with other boys, but Webb had strong feelings for his best friend
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Webb’s first relationship was based on a lack of honesty—he avoided conflict and didn’t acknowledge his girlfriend’s emotions
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Webb was overjoyed when he was admitted to Cambridge University, and would finally start to address his mental health issues
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Webb found success in comedy, reconciled with his family, and married a loving partner
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Losing his father figures prompted Webb turn his life around and commit to rethinking masculinity
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Who should read How Not to Be a Boy

Teachers and parents • anyone who questions gender norms • artists • mental health experts and psychologists • Peep Show fans

About the author of How Not to Be a Boy

Robert Webb is a Cambridge-educated, award-winning actor known for his work in the comedy duo Mitchell & Webb and his starring role in Peep Show. He is also known for his work on gender equality and has written for publications such as the Daily Telegraph.

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