How Not to Be a Boy
By Robert Webb
Canongate Books, 2017.
Summary of How Not to Be a Boy book by Robert Webb
The inspiring and honest autobiography of comedian Robert Webb, who explores themes of masculinity, gender dynamics, and unmet expectations through a touching account of his violent, disjointed childhood in rural England and his later success as an actor and writer.
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What do you get from this book? Insight into Robert Webb’s relationship to masculinity and his journey of emotional growth
Webb had an aggressive father who pushed him to toughen up, but as a child he knew was different
Boys were supposed to like sports, play rough, and not wear or do anything “girly”
Stereotypes about gender and skewed expectations of boys and girls are damaging and nonsensical
The death of Webb’s mother was an emotional blow that he struggled to cope with
Boys aren’t supposed to fall in love with other boys, but Webb had strong feelings for his best friend
Webb’s first relationship was based on a lack of honesty—he avoided conflict and didn’t acknowledge his girlfriend’s emotions
Webb was overjoyed when he was admitted to Cambridge University, and would finally start to address his mental health issues
Webb found success in comedy, reconciled with his family, and married a loving partner
Losing his father figures prompted Webb turn his life around and commit to rethinking masculinity
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Who should read How Not to Be a Boy book
- Teachers and parents
- anyone who questions gender norms
- mental health experts and psychologists
- Peep Show fans
About the author of How Not to Be a Boy
Robert Webb
Robert Webb is a Cambridge-educated, award-winning actor known for his work in the comedy duo Mitchell & Webb and his starring role in Peep Show. He is also known for his work on gender equality and has written for publications such as the Daily Telegraph.
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