Good Arguments
By Bo Seo
How Debate Teaches Us to Listen and Be Heard. Penguin Press, 2022.
Summary of Good Arguments book by Bo Seo
Part memoir, part how-to manual, renowned debater Bo Seo teaches the key principles to crafting successful and productive arguments while sharing personal details about his life, growing up as a shy boy who hated conflict.
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What do you get from this book? Bo Seo’s professional debate strategies and their illuminating effect on everyday relationships
As a child, Bo Seo disliked conflict but found comfort in the structured rules of debate
Competitive debate can help us argue more productively in our daily lives
The heart of an argument is hidden beneath complex layers that must be unpacked, separated, and clarified
A good argument requires a main point followed by evidence to support your claims
Interrupting others can be a sign of disregard, but when done correctly rebuttals demonstrate confidence and respect
Although the study of rhetoric has declined over the centuries, it remains an important part of debate
American debate styles sometimes differ wildly from the format Bo was familiar with, especially where rapid-fire talking is involved
Following Bo’s RISA checklist ensures you only enter an argument that is worth having
Bullies win their arguments by any means necessary, but if you stand your ground, you can come out ahead
Debate educates people on a wide range of topics and pushes us to open our minds to new ideas
It’s normal to argue with the people you’re closest to; putting yourself in their place will help keep your relationship strong
When it comes to debate, technology can have an ambiguous role—but there is cause for optimism
While an AI supercomputer debating against humans sounds neat, we must first focus on having better arguments amongst ourselves
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Who should read Good Arguments book
- Debate students and coaches
- politicians and lawyers
- communication professionals
- those who avoid arguments at all costs
- anyone worried about an increasingly polarized world
About the author of Good Arguments
Bo Seo
Bo Seo is a Korean-Australian journalist, award-winning debater, and coach. He holds an undergraduate degree from Harvard University, and a master’s degree in public policy from Tsinghua University. A two-time world debate champion, Seo argued on the Harvard College Debating Union and Australian National Debating Team before going on to serve as their head coach.
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