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He Comes Next

He Comes Next

By Ian Kerner

The Thinking Woman’s Guide to Pleasuring a Man. William Morrow, 2006.

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11 Key insights

A brief summary of He Comes Next

A guidebook for women that unravels the mystery of male sexuality, teaches new techniques, improves upon old ones, and helps both sexes feel fulfilled after their time in the bedroom.

Key insights in He Comes Next

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What do you get from this book? Advice for women on satisfying your man—and yourself—in the bedroom
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Premature ejaculation is a frustrating event, but spreading pleasure to the shaft and scrotum can prevent recurrences
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For men, desire is equivalent to arousal, and there are three types of erection they may experience
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Long-term relationships lose passion due to reduced chemicals in your brain, but sexual fantasies can spice things back up
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“Foreplay” charges your sex life outside the bedroom, while “coreplay” is essential inside the bedroom
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The “white tigress” philosophy empowers women while exploring new sexual games can keep things exciting for both partners
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Emotional connection keeps sex exciting—just don’t stimulate the penis too quickly; follow the “four-step process”
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Techniques for genital stimulation include using your hands and mouth—just ensure ejaculation is complete before you stop
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Selected critiques in brief
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Final word

Who should read He Comes Next

Couples • marriage counselors • sex therapists • women • men who want to better understand their bodies • sex educators

About the author of He Comes Next

Author and sex therapist Ian Kerner has spent decades helping couples and individuals face the challenges of sexual intimacy. Often seen on television and at public speaking events, Kerner is noted for his ability to simplify otherwise difficult subject matter and encourage people to ask questions, seek answers, and learn more about their own bodies as well as their partners’.

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