How to Raise an Adult
By Julie Lythcott-Haims
How to Raise an Adult. Henry Holt and Co., 2015.
Summary of How to Raise an Adult book by Julie Lythcott-Haims
A research- and interview-based examination on the dangers of overparenting, presented with alternative methods for helping your children grow into adults who are self-reliant, happy, and a valuable part of society.
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What do you get from this book? Learn the secrets to raising intelligent, happy, and self-sufficient kids without overparenting
“Helicopter parents” hurt their kids by trying to keep them safe, and society only makes it worse
Getting rid of all obstacles is dangerous, especially when parents defy rules and set their own expectations
Raise Adults, Not Children—and Allow Them to Fail so They Know How to Succeed
Overparenting Hurts Your Child’s Job Prospects, Stresses Everybody out, and Won’t Ensure a Good College
Teaching self-efficacy and life skills is the best thing an authoritative parent can do for their child
Teaching kids to “think critically” is easier than it sounds, as long as children and parents both make an effort
Allow your kid to struggle and don’t choose their college for them
Live life on your terms and let your child live life on theirs; lead by example
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Who should read How to Raise an Adult book
- Parents and expecting parents
- child psychologists
- sociologists
- pediatricians
About the author of How to Raise an Adult
Julie Lythcott-Haims
Author and motivational speaker Julie Lythcott-Haims thrives on teaching new and experienced parents fresh ways to overcome the obstacles of child-rearing. As Stanford University’s undergrad advisor and dean, Lythcott-Haims gained firsthand knowledge, experience, and skills in dealing with younger generations, resulting in numerous published articles and TED Talks.
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